Rural men’s suicide touches many lives.
Yes, I have lost friends and yes I too, have covered these stories.
At the Darling Downs Cotton Grower of the Year field day earlier this year I met Warren Davies, the Unbreakable Farmer, who left a lasting impression on me due to his honesty and vulnerability.
Warren highlighted the importance of mental health issues by telling his own compelling story of a failed suicide attempt.
He told us his story was not a pretty one, and if anyone was uncomfortable, he wouldn’t be offended if they left the shed.
No-one left and no-one spoke – he had our full attention.
As Warren put it: “mother nature was my business partner and she dealt me some cruel blows”.
“The harsh reality of being a farmer soon became evident: high interest rates, low commodity prices, flood and drought; all having an impact,” he said.
This took its toll on Warren’s mental health and one night he made a snap decision to commit suicide in the dairy after finishing milking.
In Warren’s instance, the rope snapped and the bucket he was standing on slipped, and his life flashed before his eyes as he lay winded on the floor and unharmed.
Warren said all farmers need to know the signs of any form of mental illness, and if concerned about others, should know how to ask the open ended question of ‘are you alright’ and refer professional help.
“Communication is the key – and it can save a life.”
If you or someone you know needs help, contact Lifeline Australia on 13 11 14.